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It took a lot for me to admit that I wanted to buy a dildo for my husband. Everyone always told me it was a perfectly normal thing to do, but I was the kind of person who was uncomfortable with anything that felt different. I was scared that if I got one, it would intimidate him and that would just make our relationship worse.

So I decided the best thing to do was to be proactive and research the entire process. For starters, I made sure to purchase from a reputable seller that had good reviews. That way I knew I would get a product that was safe and of top-quality.

I also did some digging on the different types of dildos and their effects. I wanted to find something that would not only be pleasurable for him but also not too big or overwhelming. I was happy to find out that there were even some pieces that were specifically designed for couples’ use and that I wasn’t alone in wanting to explore the world of sex toys.

Still, even with all the information I had gathered, I was nervous. After all, I was the one buying the product and I wanted to make sure it was something that he felt comfortable with. So, I decided to talk to him about it.

We had an honest conversation about trying it out. Luckily, he was actually really open-minded about it, and it wasn’t as intimidating as I had thought. After some light joking, we discussed safety and the best way to use the dildo. He even asked a few questions about materials and size.

Afterwards, I bought the dildo we had talked about. It felt like a significant milestone for us – a sign that we were both more secure and excited about exploring our sex life.

We tried it out together, and it was much more peaceful than I expected. Everything about it was incredibly intimate, and I felt as safe as ever that we weren’t doing anything that either of us were uncomfortable with.

After a few minutes of exploration, I noticed that not only was my husband not intimidated, but he was actually beginning to enjoy himself. In that moment, I couldn’t help but feel privileged to be able to explore something new with him that I hadn’t been confident enough to do on my own.

In the end, I was happy that I had taken the time to research properly, talk openly with my husband, and choose an appropriate product. Buying a dildo with my husband wasn’t nearly as intimidating as I thought it would be, and it actually brought us even closer together.

Since then, we’ve experimented with other toys, and even have our own collection. Whenever I look at them, I’m reminded of that day, and it’s amazing how far we’ve come.

We’ve gone from feeling awkward about talking about sex toys to having conversations about different objects we want to experiment with. It’s just as exciting as it is comfortable.

We’ve also explored different positions and techniques that are perfect for our sex toys. We found a few that work best for us, as well as some that both of us prefer. But most importantly, our research and experimentation have made us both more comfortable acknowledging our own desires and communicating about them with one another.

Through this journey, I’ve learned to embrace new things and understand, even if I’m hesitant about them at first. I’ve discovered so many benefits from exploring topics like this with my husband. We’ve become more aware of each other’s needs and have become more in sync than ever.

When we look back on when we bought our first ever dildo, I can’t help but smile. We both recognize how far we’ve come in our growth, and I’m so glad that we decided to take the plunge and learn more about this exciting and wonderful experience.

Now, I can’t help but encourage others to do the same. It can be a scary thought, but if you research, talk openly, and purchase from reputable sellers, then you’re sure to find something that won’t intimidate your partner. And in the end, it can lead to some amazing experiences.