Going strapless with a dildo is a liberating experience, but it can be a bit daunting too! When you’re starting out, it’s important to take things slowly and make sure you understand the basics. Here are my tips for wearing a strapless dildo with ease and confidence.
Firstly, you need to decide what kind of strapless dildo experience you want to have. Are you looking for something a little more adventurous or are you just looking for a bit of extra spice with your partner? This is a personal choice, but it’s important to make sure you choose the right one for your needs.
Once you know what kind of dildo experience you want, you then need to choose the right size. Too small and you won’t get the desired effect, and too large may be uncomfortable. So take your time in choosing the right size, as it really does make a difference.
Next, it’s important to ensure that you use the correct lube for a strapless dildo. If you use the wrong lube, it can cause irritation or even infection, so it’s essential to get this right. I prefer a water-based lubricant, as it tends to be more comfortable and is easier to clean up afterwards.
Now it’s time to get ready for action. I like to take things slowly and make sure that my body is relaxed and ready for the process. If you’re a bit apprehensive, take a few deep breaths and use some calming music or a soothing scent to relax you.
Then, it’s time to get in position. I find that it’s easiest to start off lying down with a pillow between your legs. This way, you have control of the pressure and the motion. Slowly insert the dildo, making sure to keep it as still as possible as this will give you the best experience.
Once you’re in position, it’s time to experiment with some different angles and motions. The important thing here is to experiment and find what felt best and most pleasurable. Some people prefer to experiment with thrusting, vibrators while others might prefer a slower and more controlled motion.
Finally, make sure to communicate with your partner. This is a great way to explore and discover new sensations and experiences. Make sure to talk about what felt good and what didn’t, and don’t be afraid to try something new.
Now that you have the basics down, it’s time to explore some more creative ways of wearing a strapless dildo. For instance, you can try using a strap-on harness to wear the dildo or even using a double-headed dildo with you and a partner.
In addition, why not take the opportunity to use a vibrator or watch some porn whilst wearing the dildo. This is a great way to add some extra sensations and help to increase your pleasure levels.
Another great way to experiment is to try out using bondage restraints. This can be a great way to explore your own and your partner’s fantasies and take play to another level.
Finally, another great way to wear a dildo is to get creative. There are so many possibilities, vibrators from using a strap-on harness and attaching it to a sex chair to try doggy-style positions or even to try some light BDSM play such as spanking.
Overall, wearing a strapless dildo can be a liberating experience. It’s important to explore different angles, motions and techniques to find what feels right for you. Don’t be afraid to experiment and communicate with your partner, and above all have fun!