My friend, I’m sure we’ve all heard an embarrassing number of “male masturbation stories”. So many of us have gone through the awkward phases of curiosity, discovery, and experimentation with the practice. It was an intensely personal journey for me, one that I still don’t like to talk about. But, hey, I’m here to share my story!
I remember the first time I heard about male masturbation. It was from a friend at school who took me to task about it. I was so embarrassed and confused! I had no idea what it was, or why he was making such a big deal out of it. A few months later, I came across a magazine that had a few illustrations on the subject. I was fascinated and intrigued. That was the first time I realized that male masturbation could feel good.
The second phase of my exploration into male masturbation was discovery. It started off with trial and error. I was learning about my body and figuring out which movements or rhythms felt good. I was thrilled to find out that when I masturbated, I could actually pleasure myself!
The next step was experimenting with different toys. I’d heard about them before, but there weren’t many options available to me back then. I had to make use of what I had. I started using my hand and my imagination and let me tell ya, it was liberating. I was so happy to have found a way that I could reach the kind of pleasure I was looking for.
It has been almost fifteen years since my first foray into male masturbation stories. I’ve now become more comfortable with discussing it and talking to my friends about it. A few of them have even shared their own stories with me. They’ve helped to make the subject less taboo, and Penis Rings more of a natural part of our conversations. I am thankful that I have been able to progress from being embarrassed and curious to being able to help my friends on their own journey of self-exploration.
The next phase of my journey was incorporating different tools and gadgets into my masturbation routine. Variety is the spice of life, and my self-pleasuring experiences were no exception. Vibrators, lubes, and other toys added a whole new level of excitement and fun to my masturbation. I remember the first time I tried using lube and I’m still very grateful for that experience. I found out that my body loved it!
The most recent phase of my journey has been exploring new positions while masturbating. Who says you can’t be creative while pleasuring yourself?! I must admit, at times it did feel a bit awkward but I’ve found such joy in the new sensations that it opened up to me. The upturned woman’s cowgirl position is definitely my favorite.
I’ve also focused more on the mental and spiritual side of male masturbation lately. I’ve learnt to be mindful and to be in the present. This has improved my experience and taken my pleasure to the next level. I’ve also learned to appreciate the beauty of solo sex and the pleasure it can bring to both body and mind.
These days, I often find myself reflecting back on the journey I went on all those years ago. I’m grateful for the awkward moments and embarrassing stories that I shared with my friends, thankful for all the lessons and experiences I’ve gained, and appreciative of all the pleasure I’ve been able to have. It’s a journey that I hope will never end.