I’m sure you’ve heard of masturbation objects for male households, but I think they’re a lot more complex than people think. First of all, let me say that I don’t believe there is a universal “right” way to use these objects, as it really depends on the individual. Personally, I use them for different moods and times of day.
Let me start by saying it felt strange to me at first to have these kinds of objects in my house. But after a while, I started to realize the amazing benefits of having objects specifically made for sexual pleasure. From improving my own mood, to cuddling with my partner, dildos I can honestly say I’ve found some of the most intimate moments of my life with these simple objects.
One of the most impactful ways I’ve found to use masturbation objects for male households is to connect with my partner. We don’t have to be doing anything sexual to use them! Instead, we use the objects to increase physical contact. For example, after a long day at work, I’ll pull out a masturbation object and just lay with my partner, exploring the textures and forms of the device. It’s a great way to relax together and build intimacies before and after sexual activities.
The biggest advantage of masturbation objects for male households is they allow us to explore our bodies more deeply. Whereas normal sex toys tend to focus on penetration and external stimulation, these objects provide more sensual contact to our skin, whether that’s through pressure, vibration, or heat. I can honestly say the gentleness has allowed me to find hidden pleasure spots I wouldn’t have discovered otherwise.
But besides the physical pleasure, I think I enjoy the psychological aspects of these objects the most. Whenever I use one of these objects, it’s like I’m allowing myself to be embraced in a warm hug of acceptance. No matter how anxious, stressed, or guilty I’m feeling, I know I’m OK in that moment and my anxieties can be momentarily forgotten.
Another way these masturbation objects have had a positive impact on my life is they’ve provided me with a tangible way to experiment with my sexuality–sometimes even when I’m not with a partner. I can explore my own body and fantasies to find out what works for me. I find this especially helpful when I’m with a new partner and I want to know what kinds of touch and stimulation they like best.
At the end of the day, I believe every person needs to find their own way to use these objects effectively. For me, it’s all been about giving myself the permission to explore my own body and desires. Although the objects we have at home are not the same for every person, the experience of using them has always been refreshing and exciting.