My lesbian friends and I love talking about the most random topics, and the other day we hit on sex toys. More specifically, do lesbians like dildos? Now, don’t get me wrong – I know there’s no right or wrong answer here, but my friends and I just wanted to discuss some experiences and see how we each felt about it.

As a starting point, I was quick to express my opinion that dildos are amazing! Whether alone or in a partnership, a dildo can add a different and exciting layer of pleasure to any intimate experience. Not just that, but the act of picking one out is fun in itself – there are so many options and possibilities!

My friend Mandy shared further how she occasionally likes different kinds of stimulation – like vibration – that sometimes just one person can’t provide. Now, a dildo is great for this and can be extremely satisfying. She also said that she isn’t totally sure why, but there are times she enjoys using a dildo even without any kind of vibration.

Nina, on the other hand, doesn’t like them much and thinks they can feel good for a short while but just don’t always hit the spot. We shared that everyone is different and what works for one person won’t always work for another. Even so, we all agreed that even when the experience is negative- it can still lead to a much better understanding of what we like and don’t like sexually.

At the end of the conversation, I asked if any of them had personally ever found a dildo to be enjoyable and only Mandy confirmed with a cheeky grin. We all burst out laughing before I continued and said, “Seriously though, if anyone is considering using them, I highly suggest it. Even if it’s just now and then, it can really be a fun experience. And hey, you just might even surprise yourself!”.

I know that a lot of lesbians prefer to use an alternative sex toy such as a strap-on harness or G-spot vibrator. I mean, those are obviously great too and definitely should be explored. But, I just feel like dildos are often overlooked – maybe it’s because it’s too simple? Well, I beg to differ there!

Dildos come in all shapes and sizes and can literally be made from all sorts of materials. It’s true that some might be a bit more complex, but there are tons of options that are super basic too. Plus, there are so many amazing shapes and sizes to choose from, I think everyone should at least try a few!

When it comes to the texture of the dildo- I mean, wow. Honestly, there is some really cool technology out there and many dildos are designed to give you as realistic an experience as possible. Whether or not you’re familiar with using a dildo, it can be an extremely enjoyable experience. The trick is to find one that feels perfect in your hands!

One thing I know for sure is that using dildos can really open up the imagination, allowing for new and exciting fantasies to come to life. It also helps heighten feelings of pleasure and trust between partners if playing together. Not to mention the fact that it can be fun. So, if you haven’t already, why not consider adding a dildo to your personal playtime? Who knows, it just might become a favorite!