Ok, so I was recently talking to my friend about what to use as a substitute for a dildo and it got me thinking about whether or not there are some really good alternatives out there. She asked me if I knew of anything that could be used instead and if I had ever tried it myself, so here’s what I told her:
First off, there are a few things that you can try if you don’t have access to a dildo. One of the main things that comes to mind is a vibrator or a massager. Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes and can be used to stimulate your body in various places. From the more traditional shapes and sizes, to the more unusual shapes, there’s something out there to suit just about everyone.
Secondly, you could always try using your fingers or hand. While this won’t necessarily give you an intense sensation, it does allow for some intimate exploration and can be a great way to get acquainted with your body. You can even use a thin glove if you’d like additional protection.
Thirdly, you could also try using household items, such as a rolled up towel, a cucumber, a banana, or a brush handle. Just make sure to wash them before and after use and do not insert anything too big or too sharp.
Fourthly, if you have access to silicone, you could even make your own dildo! You can buy an affordable block of silicone at your local craft store and use it to mold your own personalized dildo shape. It doesn’t have to be perfect and it’s really fun to do, as long as you take appropriate safety measures and precaution.
Lastly, you can always try using some high-tech alternatives. There are some amazing sex toys out there that use Bluetooth or Wi-Fi technology to connect with your phone. These toys can be controlled from your phone, allowing for more versatility and creativity. Plus, they’re often made of body-safe materials and feel incredibly lifelike.
Regardless of when or how you use a dildo or any other toy, practice safe sex and use contraception when appropriate. It’s always better to be safe than sorry! And, of course, make sure to clean your toys before and after use.
So that’s my two cents on what can be substituted for a dildo. I say, if you don’t have one already, give one of these alternatives a try. It could be a great way to explore something new and have a little fun.
Now, if we’re talking about texture, shape and size, silicone is always the best option. It’s extremely durable and flexible, and it feels very lifelike. Plus, silicone is easy to clean and can be used with any type of lube. Not to mention, most silicone dildos are phthalates-free and non-porous, which means they won’t harbour any bacteria.
Of course, if you’re going for a more natural feel, you can always opt for glass or metal toys. These materials can also provide intense sensations and a good amount of stimulation. They’re also very easy to clean and can be used with any type of lube.
Lastly, if you want something a little more discreet, you can always try a pocket-sized toy. These are usually made of silicone, and they’re specifically designed to be able to fit into a pocket or purse. They’re perfect for travel and are great for using in public or when you don’t want to have a big toy out in the open.
Overall, there are so many options out there when it comes to finding an alternative to a dildo, so don’t feel like you’re limited to one option. Experiment with different materials, textures and even shapes and sizes, and find something that works for you. I’m sure you’ll find something that really hits the spot!